Do you catch yourself asking yourself this all the time? I've recently become more aware that this is how I talk to myself.. I'm aware I have this need to have to do things A CERTAIN way in order to feel good about myself. But wait a minute. This is called being controlling. It's the inability to accept that things can happen any other way. This is definitely not an energy that we want to operate from. I sure as heck don't want to keep operating from this energy, from this space. The goal is to truly be able to go with the flow, understanding and TRUSTING that all will be okay. Relax, be at ease. Things usually work out better when we let go of the need to be ... perfect.. the need to have to do things a specific way. Really, ask yourself.. Do you REALLY need to have things go THAT WAY? Is that the ONLY way?