It's easy to point out when others are wrong. We say things like, "What the fuck? Really? They're really doing that? How could they? What's wrong with them? That's so weird, that's so disgusting, I can't believe they just said/did that." It's easy to judge others for the things they choose to do. And it's hard to admit, but when we are judging other people and their actions, we are essentially showing that we are hating certain parts about ourselves. The more mean you are to others, the more mean you are to yourself. Your inner dialogue, the one others cannot hear usually, is what bleeds out into the world. Just because we've managed to get ourselves in a good place does NOT mean that we get to hate on others for not doing the same. Everyone operates from their own timeline, and everybody is at different points of their lives. If you are truly unbothered, then you'd realize it's not even necessary to judge other people. You understand what's happening, and you protect your peace by choosing to not give your energy to whatever you don't want to. You don't have to chime in, you don't have to judge others, just as you do not have to judge yourself! After all, when we are in a dark place, we understand that what we want the most is for others to see us past the darkness, past the masks and facades, and to be understood & loved, NOT to be judged and hated on.