How would others have to change in order for you to feel good? You feel like they're not putting in the effort to connect? You feel like they're not acting loving, open, appreciative of you? It must make you feel bad... Hence why you wish they were different towards you. I get it.
So now, are you going to sit and wait for them to be different? Are you just going to wait for them to be more loving towards you, more open, more relaxed, more connected?
Or... Are you going to learn to GIVE ALL OF THOSE THINGS to YOURSELF first? You want to feel good? Figure out what you NEED from others, and then learn to give it to yourself to feel good.
Then, take it one step further by learning to give to other people these things FIRST instead of waiting around for it to happen.
Oh, your life is about to change!